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Female Performer Chat: I have a question, both to performers and members! I'm really CONFUSED!
Sometimes my room reminds me some kind of intellectual cazino, where people didscuss very different things, share their opinions, debate about politics and so on, oh, and even solve riddles. Actually not reminds, it is so. I even posted a post in my blog and decided to ask you, wheater I behave myself right or wrong.
I have this question, because I'm a model first of all, not just a smart girl, who is wellread, educated and has many-many interests, so is able to hold whatever discussion.
Once my mum said "never win chess, when playing with men if it is not a competition", while I play chess very well. And life shows that she was right. Men don't like women who are clever, well, let's say, they want to see in women not intellect first of all, but sex.
But I can't shut up my brain on 100%, that's why such debates occurs in my room. But, I don't know is it good for my job or not. Because, from one side - sometimes members enter pvt after such debates even just to continue conversation face to face without any interruptions or have some hot show )) , but from the other I already have got such a review like "... just a funny girl to chat here". I don't like such a review! I like another ones, where members said how hot, gorgeous and amazing I am!
I try to stop such talks in my room with little shows or playful words turning on a stupid girl, who cares about sex only, but when I do it, I feel myself a real idiot.
People! What do you do? Do you let such dialogs to happen in your room?
Dear members, do YOU enjoy it?
And, of course, this is my time... I guess, I could have much more tips and pvt without such talks, but sometimes it seems that otherwise can have much less.... I don't know what to do.... Quote
I have this question, because I'm a model first of all, not just a smart girl, who is wellread, educated and has many-many interests, so is able to hold whatever discussion.
Once my mum said "never win chess, when playing with men if it is not a competition", while I play chess very well. And life shows that she was right. Men don't like women who are clever, well, let's say, they want to see in women not intellect first of all, but sex.
But I can't shut up my brain on 100%, that's why such debates occurs in my room. But, I don't know is it good for my job or not. Because, from one side - sometimes members enter pvt after such debates even just to continue conversation face to face without any interruptions or have some hot show )) , but from the other I already have got such a review like "... just a funny girl to chat here". I don't like such a review! I like another ones, where members said how hot, gorgeous and amazing I am!
I try to stop such talks in my room with little shows or playful words turning on a stupid girl, who cares about sex only, but when I do it, I feel myself a real idiot.
People! What do you do? Do you let such dialogs to happen in your room?
Dear members, do YOU enjoy it?
And, of course, this is my time... I guess, I could have much more tips and pvt without such talks, but sometimes it seems that otherwise can have much less.... I don't know what to do.... Quote
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rheza111
3/22/12 @ 11:30am
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Location: just to the left of center
Posts: 2,431
i don't know if this will help you or not...but in my opinion....have your room as you see fit...be yourself and i don't think you should "dumb yourself down" do a point that feels unnatural...however i do realize the name of the game is sex and fantasy...i think there are at least four things that are better left not discussed in open...other members, other models, religion and politics...other than that nothing too offensive of course...but the main point is to be yourself...
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i don't know if this will help you or not...but in my opinion....have your room as you see fit...be yourself and i don't think you should "dumb yourself down" do a point that feels unnatural...however i do realize the name of the game is sex and fantasy...i think there are at least four things that are better left not discussed in open...other members, other models, religion and politics...other than that nothing too offensive of course...but the main point is to be yourself...
Very well said!
I talk about all kinds of things in my room, some people like it and some don't. I'm just myself.
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Very well said!
I talk about all kinds of things in my room, some people like it and some don't. I'm just myself.
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uglycouch
3/22/12 @ 1:26pm
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Location: In your chatroom!!!
Posts: 101
"You can please all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot please all the people all the time."
That said I find a smart woman sexy, some people dont. Run your room the way you want, it is your room. I think the only thing you need to be careful of is being overly confrontational in defending your views, and to stay away from the same of subjects one knows are bound to lead to a fight in a bar; Sports, Politics and Religion. Quote
That said I find a smart woman sexy, some people dont. Run your room the way you want, it is your room. I think the only thing you need to be careful of is being overly confrontational in defending your views, and to stay away from the same of subjects one knows are bound to lead to a fight in a bar; Sports, Politics and Religion. Quote
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dan_in_florida
3/22/12 @ 1:33pm
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Location: Sunny South Florida - with a REALLY cool car :-)
Posts: 1,501
I've been both a Member & a Model in my time here, and I'm married to a former Model as well, and I agree completely with Rheza & Willow & Ugly, the most important thing is to just be yourself. 
It's YOUR room so run it YOUR way, and have some FUN doing it. Your own personality is what sets you aside from any other Model out there! Those who like you will naturally be drawn to you and come to appreciate you. Anyone who does not, well, no one can ever please everyone, and you're probably better off without them anyway, LOL.
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It's YOUR room so run it YOUR way, and have some FUN doing it. Your own personality is what sets you aside from any other Model out there! Those who like you will naturally be drawn to you and come to appreciate you. Anyone who does not, well, no one can ever please everyone, and you're probably better off without them anyway, LOL.
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definitely dont dumb yourself down, ist amazing how easy it can be to tell when someone doesnt want to be there. you need to be able to relax and have fun, if that means discussing what panty style you look great in or discussing the hunt for the higgs boson thats up to you. you just to make sure you chat to the whole room on a mixture to keep everyone happy
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dudley_do_ride
3/22/12 @ 10:10pm
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Location: hain't Pochipsie son
Posts: 3,267
Ah yes... Your predicament is part of this place's charm. The method you use to resolve it will show who you are... are... are...
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i don't know if this will help you or not...but in my opinion....have your room as you see fit...be yourself and i don't think you should "dumb yourself down" do a point that feels unnatural...however i do realize the name of the game is sex and fantasy...i think there are at least four things that are better left not discussed in open...other members, other models, religion and politics...other than that nothing too offensive of course...but the main point is to be yourself...
Hi, thank you very much for your reply!
I never discuss other members or models, I think it is not honest first off all and so on. But why not politics, if discuss regimes, historical events and so on, actually without any names..?
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Hi, thank you very much for your reply!
I never discuss other members or models, I think it is not honest first off all and so on. But why not politics, if discuss regimes, historical events and so on, actually without any names..?
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"You can please all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot please all the people all the time."
That said I find a smart woman sexy, some people dont. Run your room the way you want, it is your room. I think the only thing you need to be careful of is being overly confrontational in defending your views, and to stay away from the same of subjects one knows are bound to lead to a fight in a bar; Sports, Politics and Religion.
yeah, I think you are totally right, I can't please everybody as nobody can. Thanks for reminding me this. Quote
That said I find a smart woman sexy, some people dont. Run your room the way you want, it is your room. I think the only thing you need to be careful of is being overly confrontational in defending your views, and to stay away from the same of subjects one knows are bound to lead to a fight in a bar; Sports, Politics and Religion.
yeah, I think you are totally right, I can't please everybody as nobody can. Thanks for reminding me this. Quote
definitely dont dumb yourself down, ist amazing how easy it can be to tell when someone doesnt want to be there. you need to be able to relax and have fun, if that means discussing what panty style you look great in or discussing the hunt for the higgs boson thats up to you. you just to make sure you chat to the whole room on a mixture to keep everyone happy
Thanks, I'll not dumb myself any more ) Quote
Thanks, I'll not dumb myself any more ) Quote
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suggs
3/23/12 @ 4:14am
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Location: Left of centre
Posts: 6,768
As others have said a lot better than me -BE yourslef. Sometimes if others in ther room are talking about something you may know a LOT more about than them - speak out and put them in their place - they will soon shut theit cake holes LOL
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uglycouch
3/23/12 @ 4:19am
(EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: In your chatroom!!!
Posts: 101
Hi, thank you very much for your reply!
I never discuss other members or models, I think it is not honest first off all and so on. But why not politics, if discuss regimes, historical events and so on, actually without any names..?
Current politics especially. But even some past things can if you have people in your room from the "right" background provoke a bit of a fight. Like a genocide, a topic to stay away from.
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Current politics especially. But even some past things can if you have people in your room from the "right" background provoke a bit of a fight. Like a genocide, a topic to stay away from.
oh, no! I'm a very peacefull and tolerant person, who respect other people, their feelings, thoughts, religion and so on!
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