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5 Reasons Why Men Like Anal Sex ... 2 3 4 5

2. You trust us ...The fact that you\'re letting us into a part of yourself that requires the utmost trust gives us a really fantastic feeling within. And no, it\'s not just a sexual one.If you\'re nervous about anal sex and you agree to try it with us, it makes us feel like a million bucks; our woman is putting all her trust into the fact that we will be caring and loving and not rip her anus in two. It means the world to us.3. It\'s something new ...While vaginal sex is simply fantastic, to say the least, at some point, everything becomes the norm. So when the topic of anal sex arises, you can bet that our radar perks up a bit and we become giddy about the prospect of something sexy and new.Like having sex with a new woman or engaging in a threesome , anal sex represents a part of all the crazy things we\'d like to one day do in bed. And if you enjoy it half as much as we do, well it makes it that much sweeter.4. We love your butt ...Your butt is awesome and most men enjoy getting up close and personal with women\'s butts. So when we get to have sex with the very butt that we\'ve spent so much time admiring, you can bet that we feel like we\'ve hit the jackpot.Climbing on top of you and placing our penis within your anal cavity may not sound half as fascinating to you, but couple that with our ability to caress and perhaps spank your bottom spontaneously, and life is good for men.5. It\'s very tight ...No matter how great you are at performing Kegel exercises, there\'s a pretty good chance that your butt hole will always be tighter than your vaginal one. Keep in mind that the vagina was designed to bring a ch... into the world; the butt, not so much.So when we get access to this sacred area of your body, we know that our penis will feel the squeeze of tightness coming from your anus. And although you will never understand the sensation because you can never fully feel it yourself, you need to know that the sensation is unlike anything else a man will ever experience.A man who loves anal sex is not weird or gay or any of those things that used to be associated with anal sex. He is simply a man who enjoys the company of his woman and wants to explore her body to the depths, which includes feeling her from the back.

5 Reasons Why Men Like Anal Sex ...1

We've come along way when it comes to sex, and we've come an even longer way when it comes to anal sex. Gone are the days of thinking that anal sex was something that only homosexuals do; nowadays, 25% of heterosexual couples engage in anal sex on a regular basis.And while some of you may cringe at the mere thought of letting a penis into your butt, if you gave it an open-hearted chance, you may find that you enjoy it more than you imagine.And despite what you might have heard or read, anal sex is not dangerous if done right, and it should never cause pain. If it does, either you're not ready or your man is simply not patient enough to move in slowly.If you're still hesitant about giving in to your man's fantasy of having anal sex with you, perhaps my shedding some light on why he wants it will help.1. It gives us a sense of power ...Although it sounds very territorial, the fact that we control the situation and lay on top of you is very empowering. As well, you put your sexual satisfaction (or perhaps, lack thereof) in our hands, entrusting us with your pleasure sense.Men love the idea of entering you from behind and relish in the thought of sparking all those anal nerve endings and giving you the ultimate climax. And if you enjoy it and reach orgasm because of it, we really do want to sit up and beat our chests with pride.

Why do men enjoy anal sex?

Answer 1: There are several reasons some men enjoy anal sex; these include: the anal opening is tighter than the vaginal opening; anal sex is still considered by many to be taboo which makes it more exciting; and it is a control feeling to perform anal sex on a woman.Answer 2: I definitely agree with the statement above. I love anal sex with a woman because it is so intense. You get this naught feeling because you are doing something that most people would never do and it only adds to the experienceAnswer 3: Men are into anal sex the same reason they are into vaginal or oral sex; because it feels really good. For many men, anal sex offers them a greater sense of pleasure than vaginal sex while most other men are just curious and want to explore. The first two answers offered here are by men who enjoy the taboo feeling or the controlling feeling. Some men also enjoy being the one way avenue of focus of being pleasured in much the same way when men receive oral sex because they are concentrating on their orgasm 100% without worrying about hers. Some very few men who have anal sex without condoms enjoy the idea of penetrative sex without risk of pregnancy. But there are also men like myself who just say that anal offers the best physical pleasure. It is also a great way to change things up and spice up a relationship.Being married, I have anal sex with my wife occasionally; I can say I am satisfied with my relationship because she fulfills all my fantasies and I am not ever tempted to go behind her back to pay for them.answer 4: many men are effected by the prono films that show anal sex a lot. In addition some man like to try new techniques that give new pleasure without considering the consequense of it, where some try to minimise the physical effect and were happy to do it, but some couldn't because of moral effect and scaring from the side effect or because the woman refuse to do it.

From the Peanut Gallery

From the Peanut GalleryFrom the Peanut Gallery* We tried. Didn't happen for us. Having sex with two girls at once is really every man's calling, our life's work. There's just no getting it out of our system.** What girlfriends and wives generally miss: We're thrilled with your body, even if you're not perfect. Your body is a playground for us. We want to explore you--that's what makes intimacy fun for us. And, sure, planting our flag is cool too.*** This one has always confused us. What's the difference between our fingers or your fingers getting you off? We're visual animals--we'd learn so much from watching just one time. Get over it, ladies!**** Women don't fully appreciate our motivation here. It's not about creating a porn stash, or showing off your hotness to our buddies. It's simply this: We think your body is amazing. Any time we get the slightest glimpse of you naked, it puts a smile on our face. Dirty pics, more or less, allow us to bottle that feeling. Plus, someday, when we're shriveled-up 80-year-olds, we'd like to look at those pictures and remember just how hot you were.* We tried. Didn't happen for us. Having sex with two girls at once is really every man's calling, our life's work. There's just no getting it out of our system.

The 10 Guy Fantasies Women Talk About MOST 6 7 8 9 10

6. YOU WANT TO WATCH HER MASTURBATEShe thinks: "Awkward!"Sorry, guys, but this is something we're used to doing on our own, and in our own way. Though we understand why you'd enjoy watching, it can be super-awkward for us. Your best bet: While you're pleasing her, grab her hand and encourage her to show you what she likes. And definitely tell her how amazing she looks doing it. ***7. YOU WANT TO TALK DIRTYShe thinks: "You go first."Use common sense here, guys. Like, don't start off by calling her a sexy bleeping whore. Ease in, and take it from there. Tell her how gorgeous and sexy she is. She'll follow your lead and probably get into it.8. YOU WANT TO DO IT IN A NEW, POSSIBLY DANGEROUS SPOTShe thinks: "Adventurous!"But let it happen spontaneously. That is the fun of it. If you plan for it, the thrill is gone. In fact, she may get cold feet if she has too long to think about it. Keep her on her toes! And try not to get arrested. Jail-cell sex isn't nearly as hot.9. YOU WANT TO WATCH PORN TOGETHERShe thinks: "Sure!"She may not want to admit it, but some girls are just as turned on by porn as you are. Not the college-girl show-me-your-titties kind, but the grownup kind. We understand that you're going to watch it anyway, and it'd be more fun to watch with you and reap the benefits!10. YOU WANT TO MAKE PORN TOGETHERShe thinks: "Can I trust you?"It's not posing that puts us off. It's the prospect of showing up on YouPorn--or, frankly, your buddy's iPhone. We also know you won't delete it. Bottom line: This takes loads of trust. No matter how in love we are at the time, we know that not all love lasts forever. But pictures and videos sure do! ****

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3. YOU WANT HER TO GO DOWN ON YOUShe thinks: "What else is new?"Some girls really enjoy giving oral. If your girlfriend doesn't, it may be that she's not comfortable or confident with her technique. Make her comfortable--and not by grabbing her head. Reassure her, tell her she does it the best, and guide her if you want something different. Also, I believe it was Jesus who said give and ye shall receive. So give, often and well. Ye shall receive.4. YOU WANT ANAL SEXShe thinks: "Ouch!" (and clenches her butt cheeks)Listen fellahs, this is a gift. If you want it, you have to earn it. This will likely be more "thrilling" for you than her. Hey, some girls are good to go, and enjoy it. Others, well, want some time to ease into that stage of a relationship. You know, the stage when she may drop a turd on your bed and you'll love her anyway. Yeah, that stage. Anal isn't for the feint of heart, especially if you've had Mexican for dinner. Before you go there, watch The Truth about Anal Sex.5. YOU WANT TO FINISH IN A STRANGE PLACE (ya know, like her face)She thinks: "Um, what? Why?"Hey, it's cool if you're into that sort of thing. P.S.: Why are you into that sort of thing? Nevermind. The rule here is simple: Ask permission before you do it. Or expel your, ah, love on her heart first. You know, show respect for her before you put out on her face.Read more at Men's Health: http://blogs.menshealth.com/single-girl-peanut-gallery/the-10-guy-fantasies-women-talk-about-most/2012/04/20/#ixzz2aHssN0DD

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We all have personal preferences in the bedroom, some very common and others illegal in Texas. Still, we all deserve for some of our desires to become reality. How do you make it happen? The best way: Talk to your girlfriend or wife well before you attempt the act. But asking for a little bleep bleep for your bling bling isn't always easy. It can feel as if you're being judged. Here's what most women think about 10 of your top sexual fantasies.1. YOU WANT A THREESOMEShe thinks: "Of course you do. Keep dreaming."Despite what you saw in Saturday Night Beaver, most girls don't want to enter this territory. Granted, we can appreciate the female form. And we're not horrified at the thought of being in the same room with another naked woman. But what if we asked you to be with another guy? Yeah, that's what I thought. The thing is, we'd always wonder whose company you were enjoying more. We might not admit it, but it'd cause some insecurity on our part. Get this out of your system before you enter a committed relationship, okay? *2. YOU WANT HER TO DRESS UPShe thinks: "Ooo, in what?"Ask me to put on a squirrel costume and I might crush your nuts. Hey, some people are into that stuff! If the costume has to be rented from hotmascots.com, it's probably a no-go. It takes courage to dress up (some of us are not thrilled with our bodies **) but we want to feel sexy for you. As long as we feel good in it, or you make us feel good in it, there won't be a problem here.Read more at Men's Health: http://blogs.menshealth.com/single-girl-peanut-gallery/the-10-guy-fantasies-women-talk-about-most/2012/04/20/#ixzz2aHsWfhgV

read this guys i LOVE ANAL SHOW ,,,, Sex Confession: I Really Like Anal Sex But My Husband Doesn't

"Sex Confessions" is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, some will turn you on, and some are dark and twisted. You might want to sit down for this.There are some things that couples can disagree on and it's no big deal. Say one doesn't like chicken and the other loves it. All they have to do is make chicken for one and make sure the other one has enough food to be called a meal. But what happens when that thing you can't agree on is anal sex? And in this case, it's the woman who loves and the man who is saying no thanks. Tracey* is a 30-something mom of one and wife to perhaps the only man in the universe who doesn't want to have anal. I'll let Tracey share her back-door denials.I like anal sex. There. I said it. No, I love it. My friends think that is completely weird and gross. But dare I say I like it as much if not more than regular sex. My husband Chris though. Hates it. All my friends tell me how their husbands essentially beg them to have anal and they hate it and here I am with the husband who isn't interested in anal at all. It's too messy, he says. Too complicated or something. And it kind of annoys me that he won't satisfy me in that way once in a while. Chris is a great husband. I love the guy. And we used to have anal about twice a month when we were first together. I've always been a huge fan of butt play -- dildos, fingers, vibrators. But I had never had anal sex until I met Chris. I always thought he was into it, too, until one day he said no to it. Then the next time, he said no again. And that trend continued. When I asked him about it he told me that he didn't like it, that it felt too planned, too much worrying about the clean-up, mostly because he can't come from anal, so we usually have vaginal sex after that but he has to clean his penis before we can do that.We've tried starting off with vaginal but then he can't get hard enough for what is essentially round two of anal. And I want anal! I feel like I just said anal a million times, but I'm not sure how to handle this situation and mostly I feel really alone. I can't be the only woman out there who likes to have anal sex, can I?I also feel like I do things I don't particularly love to do for my husband -- namely blowjobs -- to make him sexually happy. Why can't he do this for me?What do you think of Tracey's confession? What advice would you give her?

Hardcore foot fetish footjob! ------- some footjob action-------- Hope sexy feet

Hardcore foot fetish footjob!Smiling blonde babe Carol is doing a hardcore foot fetish footjob on Choky Ice's hard dong until he is cumming on her sexy clean feet! The sweet young babe also invites the horny boy in her wet pussy... After having a hot & fast vaginal sex the playful blonde starts jerking his cock until it starts pumping its hot cum out...some footjob actionJessica Koks is a real cutie, with a sweet dimpled face. When we first see her she's on a couch with her bare feet in Zenza Raggi's lap. The lucky dude sucks her toes, then puts green toe separators between them, the kind that are used in nail salons. While the sweetie watches, Zenza polishes her toenails silver, then gets back to worshiping. Soon he's licking her pussy and she's rubbing his big dick with her soles. Hope sexy feetKlaudia, also known as Cindy Hope is here once again! Besides looking delicious in her black bra and panties, this lithe lady teases us today with pink marabou mules, a favorite kind of shoe for many a foot fan. The puffy marabou hangs like clouds over her toes as she reclines on the couch and moves her legs around. Standing up, Klaudia thrusts her feet at us in the mules, then stretches her legs out with her feet in the foreground. As if tempting us with the delights of worship, she licks her own knees, then takes her panties down. Then she slips off the shoes and teases with her bare feet, wiggling and spreading her toes and then sucking them.

Time for a foot snack!-------- Limber and tattooed!

Time for a foot snack!Kathia Nobili and Lana meet in a kitchen to have some fun with their feet. Kathia is sitting around in her flip-flops enjoying some yogurt when Lana shows up in her short-shorts and canvas shoes. Soon Kathia is dripping yogurt on Lana's bare thigh, which creates a big mess but leads to some tasty leg worship. After Kathia takes off Lana's shoes, Lana demonstrates how nimble she is by picking up the spoon with her toes and feeding Lana some yogurt. But it's far more fun for Kathia to drip yogurt on Lana's feet and lick the mess off her red polished toes. We gotta hand it to Kathia-she really crams her friend's feet in her mouth to get at ever...Limber and tattooed!sla from the United Kingdom returns to tease us with her nimble legs. We come upon her as she enjoys a drink while sitting around in her hot pink bra and panty and stripper-style heels. Climbing up on a pool table and stretching across the green felt, she continues to sip her libation while moving her legs around in various pinup-like poses. Leaning back, she lifts up her gams and shows us her panty crotch. Then, holding onto her heels, she arches her back and thrusts up her midsection, showing off the tattoos on the right side of her body which extend from her waist all the way down her foot. She rubs her pussy through the panty and then slips her fi...

Masseuse�s Foot Skills! Fulfilling Her Shoe Whim!

Masseuse's Foot Skills!Sometimes the body needs to be kneaded in order to reach a state of relaxation and refreshment. And what better way than by going to a masseuse, particularly if she is beautiful? Lucky Nick Lang gets a complete massage from gorgeous Kathia Nobili today. After greeting him in a flower-print robe and flip-flops, she oils her size 6.5 feet with their red-polished toenails. She goes to work on Nick with her peds, applying pressure to his back, his butt, and standing on him with those delectable soles. Soon her toes find their way to his mouth, before she reverses her position to jack his cock with her soles. Excited by his meat, she straddles him and tugs... Fulfilling Her Shoe Whim!Here's a roleplay fantasy many of us would enjoy: being in charge of the shoes of our wives or girlfriends, and catering to their whims for the instant gratification of their shoe needs! Nick Lang hurries into the room when his wife calls him and asks him to bring down some of her favorite shoes from the bedroom upstairs. Nick doesn't even have time to put down his briefcase from work, she is so impatient. No sooner is he fitting some different heels on her red nylon-clad stems than she's bringing out the foot and leg worshipper in him, sticking her size 6.5 Czech feet in his face and rubbing them on his trousered cock. His meat comes out soon en...

footjob----- No Sock Left Unpeeled

Sometimes the body needs to be kneaded in order to reach a state of relaxation and refreshment. And what better way than by going to a masseuse, particularly if she is beautiful? Lucky Nick Lang gets a complete massage from gorgeous Kathia Nobili today. After greeting him in a flower-print robe and flip-flops, she oils her size 6.5 feet with their red-polished toenails. She goes to work on Nick with her peds, applying pressure to his back, his butt, and standing on him with those delectable soles. Soon her toes find their way to his mouth, before she reverses her position to jack his cock with her soles. Excited by his meat, she straddles him and tugs... No Sock Left UnpeeledSome pretty knee socks are the jumping off point for a charismatic encounter between two of our best Hungarian honeys who really know how to get things going in a foot fetish scene! Cindy Hope aka Klaudia wears the sheer black socks, and Viktoria Diamond the pink, their size 8.5 feet wiggly with their toes aching to be sucked in their Full HD leg fetish video! First they kiss and caress each other's gams while still wearing their high heels, then the peep toe pumps come off for some mouth-on-nylon footsie action! They sniff their shoes and rub their nips with their

Controlling Your Gag Reflex

Controlling your gag reflex takes time. If you are one of those lucky girls who doesn't have a gag reflex then you can skip this section. The key is to slowly desensitize it and these steps will show you how. Using either a finger or a peeled banana is best. Just place it into your mouth and slowly edge towards the back of your throat. Eventually you will feel it hit the back of your throat where it will trigger your gag reflex. When this happens, hold it there and don't move it. You now need to maintain your breathing through your nose while at the same time heavily concentrating on relaxing your throat. (Sometimes this is really easy and sometimes this can be quite tough. The key is to keep trying, even if you do find yourself accidentally gagging every now and then.) Hold the banana steady at the back of your throat for up to 10 seconds. Don't try to move it in or out. Try doing this for 3-7 times every day for a week. You'll start to find towards the end of the week that it will get a lot easier and your gag reflex won't be as sensitive Your gag reflex will becomes less and less sensitive over the coming weeks, as you continue practicing. Once you notice this, then it's time to take it a step further. Every once in a while, try moving the banana slowly in and out of your mouth so that it's repeatedly brushing off your gag reflex. The first few times you try this, your gag reflex will be heavily stimulated making you feel like throwing up. But it's important to try your best to stay calm, keep breathing and relax (even if your throat is in spasms!). After a few weeks of this, you will have eventually worn down the sensitivity of your gag reflex to the point where you are quite comfortable taking a banana deep into and out out your throat without convulsing or coughing excessively. Now you need to try it with your man!

Deep Throating In Real Life ...FAQ On Deep Throat

Deep Throating In Real LifeWhen you are deep throating your man in real life, you should start off giving him a regular blowjob, before slowling transitioning to giving him deep throat. This is so that you can quickly transition back to the blowjob or even a handjob if you are uncomfortable with it.I don't recommend making a big deal out of it with your man. It's actually better if you say nothing at all and just surprise him by giving him deep throat when you are fully comfortable practicing on the banana. That way there will be less 'performance pressure' on you to make sure it goes perfectly right.FAQ On Deep ThroatQ: What's with all the saliva?A: When you deep throat your man, you will notice that you produce huge amounts of saliva. This is perfectly natural and you won't be able to prevent this, so try not to worry about it too much. On the plus side, it will help to lubricate your blowjob/deep throat, making the whole experience more enjoyable for your man.Q: I don't like bananas! What else can I practice on?A: The truth is that a peeled banana is the cheapest item that is commonly available that resembles a penis. The great thing about a peeled banana is that it has no sharp bits or edges. It also is soft and deforms if you apply to much pressure to it, meaning that you never have to worry about hurting yourself with it.Q: I've been following your steps for X number of weeks and my gag reflex will still not disappear. What can I do?A: Certain people have incredibly sensitive gag reflexes that just won't disappear, even with all the training in the world. If you are one of these unfortunate people, then rather than wasting hours on training that won't fix the problem, your best option is to try one of the other techniques that you can find on the site.Q: I don't want to give my man deep throat, but he's insisting that I do. What should I do?A: My opinion is that all great relationships are based on trust, respect and mutual understanding. It's important that your man understands this. So you need to talk to him to make sure that you are on an equal footing and that he's not calling all the shots without listening to you.

deep throat

Learning how to deep throat your man without gagging is a powerful skill to posses. However it often takes a long time to learn. This guide will help to quickly get you up to speed so that you can give your guy great deep throat every time.Deep throating involves taking your man's penis deep into your mouth, where it often enters your throat. While this feels great for your man, it can often severely irritate your throat and cause you to gag or even feel like vomiting. The main thing you must learn if you want to be able to give your man great deep throat is to control this gag reflex so that you can comfortable take your man's penis into the back of your throat.Learning how to deep throat your man without gagging is a powerful skill to posses. However it often takes a long time to learn. This guide will help to quickly get you up to speed so that you can give your guy great deep throat every time.Deep throating involves taking your man's penis deep into your mouth, where it often enters your throat. While this feels great for your man, it can often severely irritate your throat and cause you to gag or even feel like vomiting. The main thing you must learn if you want to be able to give your man great deep throat is to control this gag reflex so that you can comfortable take your man's penis into the back of your throat.

The 10 Best Sex Positions For Longer Lasting Mind Blowing Explosive Orgasms 9 10

Sex position 9: Criss crossAn adventurous take on the ever predictable missionary position, this little beauty feels really intimate as you're very close and locked in. Not great for penetration, but still feels very good when done correctly.Guy penetrating a girl using crossed body language.Criss cross position.How to do it:1. Get the girl to lay on her back.2. Assume the normal missionary position, but instead of putting both legs in between hers, only place the one, so you're criss crossing on top of her.3. You can either grind (which is recommended) or you can pound her.Sex position 10: The butterflyFor all the aspiring pornstars out there, this position is one that will make you feel like one. It not only looks the part, but it also feels awesome, you can control the speed and how far you're inside her.Guy holding a woman's legs and having sex at the end of the bed.The butterfly position.How to do it:1. Lay her down on the bed, with her butt just hanging off the side/edge of the bed.2. Take one of her legs and place it over your shoulder.3. Take the other leg and hold it with your hand, just above your waist. Use the lower leg to get a good grip on the position4. Insert your plonker and proceed to pound away.Final thoughts on the best sex positionsForget the Karma Sutra, all you need is a handful of these sex positions to get the most out of sex. If you can master a few of them, you'll be having incredible sex with every girl you pull.Practice will get you everywhere, but experimenting will keep things interesting so don't be afraid to adapt these moves and make your own up.

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Sex position 6: Lazy doggyIf you're aggressive in the bedroom and absolutely adore pounding women, with absolute control on your part then this is the best sex position for you. Not only will you be hitting the g-spot and getting REALLY deep, but you can both grind and pound for maximum pleasure.Guy on top of girl from behind.Lazy doggy position.How to do it:1. Get her to lay down on her belly.2. Place a pillow underneath her stomach so that the butt is propped up.3. Get on top of her (without laying on her) and begin penetrating her vagina.4. Use your body weight to get very deep and play around with the pressure/speeds.Sex position 7: Lap danceA very sexy position that women will get very turned on by. It's great for deep penetration and looks incredible if the girl has an amazing ass.Guy getting a sexual lap dance.Lap dance position.How to do it:1. Lay down on the bed with a few pillows behind your head.2. Ask her to straddle you at the hips with her ass facing you.3. Get her to grind you in a very slow and seductive way, so that she replicates a lapdance.Sex position 8: Giddy upGreat if the girl has decent lower and upper body strength in her arms, abs and legs. If she doesn't then this will last for a short while. It's great for deep penetration also.Girl riding a guy.Giddy up position.How to do it:1. Lay down on the bed and ask the girl to climb on top of you.2. Get her to do a crab like structure over you with her hands either side of you (shoulder width apart) legs either side of you near your knees and butt directly on your pelvis.3. She can either take control and bounce/grind on your cock or you can hold her butt at a certain height and pound away.

The 10 Best Sex Positions For Longer Lasting Mind Blowing Explosive Orgasms

Sex position 4: Slow climbThis is a great position for hitting her g-spot and giving her an orgasm very quickly. The reason it's called the slow climb is because the higher you move her but upwards, the deeper you will drill your penis and eventually give her an orgasm.Guy with girls legs over his shoulders.Slow climb position.How to do it:1. Tell her to lie on her back.2. Kneel down as if you were assuming the missionary position.3. Take her legs and lift them up so either foot is resting on both of your shoulders4. Penetrate her vagina and slowly pick up speed. Grab a pillow and place it beneath the small of her back so he butt is pushed up and you're now penetrating at an angle... but directly hitting the g-spot.Sex position 5: Seated ScissorsThis can be an awkward one, so make sure you both pretty flexible. If you are, then it's going to feel amazing for both of you. It's also a position that she has the most control over, so grinding on you will feel the best.Girl sitting backwards on top of a guy.Seated scissors positon.How to do it:1. Lay on your back and ask her to sit on top of you (facing away from you).2. Get her to position herself so that she has one of your legs going through both of hers, straddling one leg almost.3. Tell her to grind your cock.

The 10 Best Sex Positions For Longer Lasting Mind Blowing Explosive Orgasms

Sex position 2: Standing upYou'll have to have some decent upper arm strength to pull this position off for any good length of time, but when you do it's f**king awesome! You'll get VERY deep in her pussy and the speed is all up to you, so she's under your control.Quick tip: You can rest her back against the wall to get a little more purchase and also give your arms a rest.Guy holding girl by the butt and legs.Standing up position.How to do it:1. Ask her to jump you whilst standing up and immediately wrap her legs around your waist and put her arms around your neck.2. You then need to put your arms underneath her legs and place each hand on her butt cheeks.3. Then ask her to take one hand and guide your penis into her vagina (because you will have your hands full). Proceed to pound.Sex position 3: SpooningWe all like a good spooning, but forget the cuddling part for now because using spooning as a sex position is fantastic. You won't get very deep inside her, but you will be hitting her g-spot which will feel awesome for her. You can also easily try anal sex at this point too if she's into it.Guy spooning a girl from behind.Spooning position.How to do it:1. Both lay down next to each other and choose a side to spoon.2. Take her leg (the one that's not on the bed) and bend it at the knee towards her.3. Position her butt towards you and insert your penis, the go hell for leather on that booty

The 10 Best Sex Positions For Longer Lasting Mind Blowing Explosive Orgasms

Come on dude... are you seriously still boning chicks in the missionary position?Wow, that just sucks.Really it does.You're missing out on so much by not exploring the best sex positions... it's just crazy.Did you know that you'll not only last longer in the sack which makes you look like a stud and prolongs the pleasure, but you'll also give the girl mind blowing... toe curling, back scratching orgasms that will keep you on her mind for months to come.Women LOVE a guy who knows his way around the bedroom.So it's only logical that you learn a few tricks of the trade which will keep them coming back for more right?Right then... enough with the chit chat, let's get on with the best sex positions for pleasure, orgasms, prolonged enjaculation and pronstar style lovin.Quick Note: If you're serious about becoming a sex god in bed, then do yourself a HUGE favour and watch this video.Sex position 1: The squatThis one is great for getting deep into her vagina and you can both take turns, she can either ride you and bounce or you can just pound her. You should try different speeds also to spice it up a bit.Girl on top of guy in bed.The Squat PositionHow to do it:1. Start by laying on your back and ask the girl to straddle you.2. Tuck her feet behind the back of your thighs, so you have a good grip.3. Take your hands and place them on her hips.4. Find the sweet spot where your pelvis meets her butt and pound her like a naughty girl.

How To Make A Woman Orgasm Fast� With These 3 Kil... Sex Positions

enjoy this guys .. carlee love ursPosition 3: Girl On TopYeeeehaa cowboy. Grab a chair and ask her to sit on top, make sure she leans back and holds onto the edge of the chair, arching her back as she does this.Now it's up to her to do the work, but it's important to tell her to ride you hard. Talk her through it by saying naughty things so she gets turned on and keeps going.Make it a point to throw all of these positions in at some point and spend 5 to 10 minutes on each....The aftermathSo let's imagine you've just finished having sex and you're both exhausted, give her a kiss and a cuddle then say that you really need to be somewhere... this will leave her wanting more.That's how you make a woman orgasm faster than she ever has before! Oh if you'd like any more advanced sex tips like these I'd strongly recommend you check out 2 Girls Teach Sex, these guys are the real deal when it comes to teaching guys how to perform between the sheets.Ladies: What's the best way to make you orgasm? Comments below...Guys: What moves have you tried that really get girls off? Comments below...enjoy this guys .. carlee love ursenjoy this guys .. carlee love urs

How To Make A Woman Orgasm Fast� With These 3 Kil... Sex Positions

1. Get her completely relaxedNow it\'s a known fact that women find it much harder to \"get off\" and orgasm without any foreplay, so you should always try and introduce foreplay before sex, let those tricky fingers hang loose bro.But even before foreplay, you have to get her totally relaxed so she\'s comfortable in your company. If she\'s not relaxed, it\'s game over... she\'ll be fakin like a pro.Take your time dude, just make her feel at ease so she\'s practically begging you to have sex with her... this is when you take it to the next stage and bring out the \"BIG GUNS\".2. Use these 3 kil... sex positionsRight then, once you\'ve made her feel relaxed, clothes are off and you\'re humping her like a jack rabbit, remember to use these 3 cheeky G-Spot moves:Position 1: Advanced DoggyAssume the normal \"Doggystyle\" position, then guide her head down so it\'s on the bed, make sure her ass is still in the air.Now place a pillow underneath her stomach and tell her to rest on it. So she\'s relaxed and just ready to be pounded.Lastly, just go for it. Thrust downwards, hard and with a steady pace so that it\'s consistent. Try and maintain the thrusting for 5 minutes, if you can do that she\'ll have a squirting orgasm in no time.Position 2: G-Spot MissionaryAssume the normal missionary position, then take both her legs and place them over both of your shoulders. Place a pillow under her lower back and slightly lift her legs so her ass is just off the bed.Now all you need to do is thrust hard and with a consistent pace. Mix things up by moving towards her face and whispering naughty things to her, also taking just the one leg and pumping her just like that.

How To Make A Woman Orgasm Fast� With These 3 Kil... Sex Positions

Ok, let\'s be serious for a minute, I want you to answer the following questions...1. Are you amazing in the sack?2. Can you give any woman mind blowing... pillow biting... toe curling orgasms on demand?If you said yes to both of those questions, then you can leave dude because it\'s obvious that you\'re a boss.But if you said no and bowed your head in shame like a lost little puppy who fumbles his way through the bedroom during nookie, then you\'re going to LOVE what I\'m about to teach you.After you\'ve finished reading this entire post, you\'re going to know EXACTLY how to make a woman orgasm faster than you ever thought humanly possible.You\'re going to understand why sex positions are crucial for nailing the G-Spot and why you must get her relaxed before sex to guarantee sensational orgasms that will leave her body numb with pleasure.Also what you MUST do straight after having sex.Are you ready? Because this isn\'t some flimsy throw away bunch of hyped up tips... these are hard hitting, proven ways to make any girl scream with ecstasy... again and again.I got them from my pals over at 2 Girls Teach Sex, plus I\'ve used them myself and they totally work.Ok awesome, let\'s get started.How to make a woman (any woman) orgasm fast - whenever you want them too.

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What you mean to meMy mind is longing for love,A love my heart just found.Words will not describe!The emotions I feel inside.When we are together,I need to hold you close.Heart to mind, or lips to lips.I love your smile,your sexy charm,Your valiant walk,your long flowing hair,All these things sets alarm.To each day I walk alone,No one can fill my heart... your home.I think about you all damn day,But mostly when I lie awake.I never dreamt much in the past,Now I do and it's for you.I will stand by your side,Through thick and all,To see that gorgeous smile,That always makes me fall.When you think you have nothing left,I SWEAR to you, I'll be left.Your gentle lips and your beautiful glow,An angel I have, from head to toe.I know these words,my heart has shown,To you I vow these words alone.Love,MeLost LoveVoid, empty, hollow insideMy dreams have fled, my hopes have diedExistence has no reasonLife's just passing with each seasonShe was my life, my hope, my loveAll is gone, passed by thereofThe hurt is such no one should bearWhat's to life, why should I care?I weep all night for my love goneMy heart is sick, for death I longMine eyes well tears for love that's lostI'll mourn always for the great costBut in each day Lord give me hopeStrengthen me so I may copeGrant me wisdom to help me seeThy great way and not just me.

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**Love 1939Love 1939Written on every treeIn bold the name of meShe acceptsMy proposal and she writesI love you tooAs usual we teens doIn nineteen thirty nineI leave her safe under the tree, pineMy cycleBuckle tight to the barkAnd I promise to the soil to return back quickThe cycle is eaten up halfAs the missing time of mine considerably enoughThe rain of pain here was so severeUnable to bear, my love, at first turned to stoneAnd then washed away into the river.Why I Love YouYou give to me hopeAnd help me to copeWhen life pulls me downYou bring me aroundYou teach me to careAnd help me to shareYou make me honestWith kin dness the bestFrom you I learned loveWith grace from aboveIt\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'s for you I liveAnd I want to giveYou are the reasonThat fills each seasonWhen I hear love I think of youYou are my world and best friend tooI love you because you are so ki ..nd, thoughtful and caringI love you because you are so pleasant, lovely and sharingYou made me the man I amThank youLoveSoft and warmSealed with careSweet and ki..Will ever shareBrave and strongYet so fairThat is herShe\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'s always thereSensitiveto despairHarkens toothers welfareDelicateshe\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'s elsewhereBeautifulbeyond compareIf you meet herBest BewareShe\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'ll steal your heartunawareHer name is LoveThis I swearThere\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'s none like heranywhereHer...I can never get my mind off her,I wonder if she\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'d mind if i\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'d,make her my own,and never let her go,hug her tight,treat her right,act all polite,take her on a date,make sure i\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'m never late,kiss her on her lips,talk about our ki ds,Make her feel like princess,living in a castle,hope that is not too much hassle,But i am so blessed,hope i can be the best,hold you tight,have your BR3A$t,on my chest,pass the test,NOW YOUR MINE!

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The Weight of LoveI once was asked concerning love versus hateWhy does it seem that hate is so great?While hate is a very strong emotion tooNothing can equal love that is trueThe weight of hate is very heavy to bearWhile it seems like love is lighter than airAccounts of hate make a big news headlineWhile actions of love you must look hard to findBut when you consider that love is patient, kind,Envieth not, not pompous, not puffed up, not rude,Seeketh not her own, slow to anger, thinks no evil,Rejoices not in wrong doing, but rejoices in the truth,Bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things,Endures all things, and never fails*You soon learn that the density of love is so much,Although the scales be heaped with a great volume of hateIt\'s catapulted by a mere measure of love\'s touch,Love strengthens the bearer so one feels not its weightLove -unbound pleasureIn my heart there is a sensationDelicate delicious soft emotionIntoxicated sight deep sea eyesMysterious mystic melody liesHypnotic mesmerizing surpriseGlistering glorious magnetic faceLustrous green delightful graceDark jet black cascading hairLots of secrets I wish to shareNeed you to feel the depth of oceanHeight of the hill will be a true funSome one so near and dear, my ownAdventure feel together unknownUnseen unsaid lots of passion wonderSoft touch heavy breath fondling tenderLove care raw wish inflaming desireNaughty, sweet game played togetherSlowly and gradually in pleasure unboundDrown bottom deep in you myself I foundForsaking My LoveI hate youI wish to tear you away from meThis tumor that clings to my chestThe thing that makes me acheThat haunts my dreamsAnd tears at my desiresYou have brought me only painMy untamed heartThat beast that gnaws at my soulThat pitifully whinesBringing my mind into unwanted painYet how can I blame youHow can I chastise you when I listen intently to your pleasWhy should I punish you for what my eyes feed uponHow can I blame my eyes for falling upon herShe who brings light to the eternal darkness of my soulShe whose eyes bring me to subjectionWhose smile leaves me in aweHow can I blame you when my ears are met with her laughterHow they submerge into her songHow they quiver at her voiceWhy should I punish you for inclining my soulTempting it with the one sense that has been forsaken by herHow could I look over the thought of the brushing of lipsThe touching of handsThe binding of the soul, mind, and bodyO you wretched heartWhat am I to do with this constant companionHow could I tear you awayWhen she is the cause of my agonyOr ratherIt is the lack of her which brings me sorrowIt is the need for her that leaves my heart in painYet she is not mineShe was never mineShe will never be mineO my poor heartHow can I make you see reasonWhen all you do is show me the truth

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LoveLove your motherLove your fatherLove your teacherLove your life\'s partnerLove your siblingsLove your chil....Love your friendsLove your fellow beingsLove life in all formsLove natureLove yourselfY/. The Golden Key (A Sonnet)One day, I want to melt all gold on earthAnd make a wonderful key with it allThis special key of incredible worthWill be fit to unlock your heart and soulThe remote buttons will work like a smileLike a lawine of sweet and loving wordsI will turn that key with a manly styleAnd happy thoughts will fly to you as birdsA simple turn of the sweet golden keyJust like a wonder, magic fun and trueWill cause, for everyone to hear and seeA wave of peace and happiness in youLet\'s dream of a universe filled with loveAnd all may get a key from High AboveGod loves youDittyO! love to me is but a season -Seldom does it overstay,And tho\' I pain to seek a reason,Like the dream, it fades awayTo leave me once again in aweOf how the heart can render rawIn loss of love; but then to soarAtop anew! - and hail adieu!To her who fled from chance I gaveTo see us wed: Then on,To court another fairer face -And lose again in end of chase!I curse the seasons evermore -They tease me thro\' their metaphor:Starting fresh, their vigour young,Yet oversoon, the ditty sung.Kiss of my LoveYour beauty overwhelms meAs I wrap my arms around youI press your softness tightGreat passion fills my inner beingI\'m captured in your embraceYour eyes control my very soulThe touch of your lips, heavenForever frozen in timeAll else fades into nothing

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Bitter Blow of LoveLove! you dealt a bitter blow -You lay me cross the mortal plains,Bedewed, bedimmed amongst a showOf tearful clouds: eternal rainsTo weep at my enduring foeOf harsh reality - searing pains ofDestiny: dependable propensityTo fool myself repeatedlyThat I could ever triumph over love! Y..... The BalloonI went to the sea of love, this noonI took it and put it in a blue balloonI brought this balloon, so blueall the way, especially for youSo, quick, quick, quickGive this balloon a pricklet's bathe in its contenta sea of love, to never end**platonic lovemy magic heart- shaped black coraland your zenith rock solid beautyignite our inflammableemerald passionsbut I am acockcastrated bypromises given toanother hen, a fear grippedin the lion heart of mine to earnignominious fame so I sing the song oflove like a cage- bird though my rhythm stolenby the burden of life I descend everynight to the roof of your fairydreams though mywings are cutbythe pipingeyes of bigots,I hear the waves of thesound carry the urge of yourmysterious mystic eyes though somejealous created a wall I smell your showeringbreath in the flowers though the gardener leads thebees after me some sharks make hindrance totaste your smile in the still waters stillI pray to make you free from theblistering spell of charms ofour love to be happy toprance aroundandgive meall the pain ofcuts of neighbours tongues.

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O love love love love love love love love Is My Love (an ode)I love my loveAs love should loveBut you never loveAs my love should love me.you got your colourful wingsand you flybut I am never invitedleft as a flower without butterflyYou are the wishYou are the desireEvery one loves to fill withBut my heart pangs in despair.Even if I close my eyes and shut my mindMy heart knows you come in as a rainIn the hearts of people but mine I findIn the desert under unbearable wreathing pain.***I know what love is!I know what seeing is!As I saw you that day for the first timeSo I know what liking is!I know what striking is!As I stroke stone against stoneSo I know what the spark is!I know what rubbing is!As I rubbed heart against heartSo I know what love is!I know what caring is!As I had been used to it since we metSo I know what soft touch is!I know what fire is!As I had been burning along with youSo I know what nectar is!I know what compassion is!As I have experienced it with youSo I know what affection is!I know what addiction is!As I have been addicted to the smell of youSo I know what obsession is!I know what memory is!As I have experienced the break upSo I know what the hurt is!I know what mistake is!As I have been the victim of misjudgementSo I know what reconciliation is!I know what longing is!As I have suffered from emptinessSo I know what she is!I know what losing is!As I have lost in the rough windSo I know what I miss!

5 Tips For Giving Oral Pleasure That'll Drive Him Crazy

There is absolutely no need to be nervous when learning how to suck cock. You'll find that it's actually surprisingly easy to suck your man's cock even if you don't have that much experience. Just like I say on the Bad Girl's Bible, all you need is the right advice. With that in mind, the following 5 cock sucking tips will get you up to speed quickly with giving your man fantastic blowjobs.Attitude - When learning how to suck cock properly, you'll find that by far the biggest factor to giving your guy a great blowjob is...attitude. Attitude plays a role that is far more important than any technique you can use on him.When you have an attitude where you are enthusiastic and looking forward to having a fun sexual time with your man, then he will be able to sense it. This is far sexier and more of a turn on for him than just mechanically giving him a blowjob like you are some sort of robot!So think about it for a minute, what's you attitude when you are usually sucking your man's cock? It's perfectly fine to be quiet and shy about it, provided that you do it with enthusiasm. So even if you learn nothing else from this article, the next time you suck your man's cock, do it with enthusiasm. He will be pleasantly surprised!Build Up - Having an enthusiastic attitude is crucial when learning how to suck cock. Another simple thing that you do to increase his pleasure is to pay some attention to how you build up to sucking his cock.In almost every case, you'll find that a long, slow build up to sucking his cock makes for a better blowjob for your man as well as far more enjoyable orgasms. So think about this the next time you are planning on sucking his dick:

What It Feels Like To Get Your D Sucked(2=)

Oh, right. I guess I should finally get to the whole \"what it feels like to get your dick sucked\" part of this article. I\'m sorry, I didn\'t know I had so many feelings regarding this subject. OK, so getting your dick sucked can feel one of three ways: Amazing, painful or like nothing at all. Seriously. I once was with someone ages ago who would go down on me and it would feel like air. I would have to check to see what he was doing down there because it felt like nothing was happening. In a way, I guess this is a good thing. If someone\'s bad at giving head, it\'s best that it feels like nothing rather than painful hell. But it still weirded me out. How can you put a mouth on a penis and have nothing happen??!!The best part of a blowjob for me is not when they\'re going down on me, but when they come up for air and start jacking you off. They\'ve lubricated your dick so well with their mouth that it\'s created a pleasurable waterslide (BTW, too much saliva is a bad thing. I once was with someone who drowned my penis and it made my dick so sensitive that I would have spasms if he touched it. Quell embarrassing!) Anyway, the moment a guy comes up and starts jacking me off, it feels amazing. Kind of like I\'m going to pop/explode/whatever. The actual sensation of a mouth on your penis feels exactly like how you would think. However, it\'s the mixture of saliva and what you do with your hands that makes it go off the charts.One thing you should know about how it feels to get your D sucked? It\'s a fine line between pleasure and crippling anxiety. As you may know, all men aren\'t created equal. Some take 5 minutes to cum (bummer) and some take 30 (exhausting bummer). If a dude is taking too long, it\'s kind of crazy how mental he can become. He feels terrible that you\'re working so hard and there\'s still no orgasm at the end of the blowjob tunnel. Of course this anxiety makes it impossible for him to cum, and then it becomes a blowjob aborted. With most sex stuff, most of it is all mental.Blowjobs are fun. Blowjobs are stressful. Blowjobs are major work. Blowjobs are the kindest gesture. But they\'re really not all that complicated. In fact, I would ki.. to know what it feels like to get eaten out. Or just what it feels like to have a vagina in general.

What It Feels Like To Get Your D Sucked (1)

Many of my girlfriends have asked me the question, "What does it feel like to receive a blowjob?" They tell me that they yearn for a penis just so they can experience it themselves. I, for one, understand this completely. I can't imagine clocking in countless blowjob hours without a guarantee that you're going to get yours. I like giving them mostly because I like penis. As a gay man, it's sort of in my job description. But I'm not sure how pumped I would be if a blowjob wasn't promised to me in return (unless of course, I loved the dude and we were in a relationship. Then you don't keep score.)But even though you should return the favor, it doesn't mean you're going to want to, especially if you're with someone you don't care about. And that's okay! Because above all else, giving a blowjob is exhausting. I'm not just saying that to be cute because oh my god, they don't call it blowJOB for nothing, right?! No. I'm just saying that giving someone a blowjob is an amazing gift. It's better than paying for dinner at Buca di Beppo, it's better than filling someone's gas tank up, it's better than paying for the movie and popcorn. It's "Let me move my mouth up and down on something jarring while using both of my hands feverishly. Let me sweat in really unattractive ways and be in a really vulnerable position." Even though blowjobs are less intimate than something like anal sex, they're still a sexual act that requires trust and understanding. Like you could be really bad at giving head (it's really hard) and you want to make sure you're with someone who won't judge you. You want to be with someone who's willing to correct years of bad technique because they care! (Unless it's a one night stand type of situation. Then there's no need for the Sting and Trudie Styler kind of communication. Just do your thing, let him do your thing, and get out.)You know what's the worst? When you're giving head and someone pushes your head down further so you choke on their dick. It's like, "Can you not? I know you want to feel like you have a huge penis right now but it really hurts and makes me feel degraded. So cut it out!" I always get uncomfortable when someone's going down on me and I look up and they're staring at me dead in the eye. I know it's supposed to be sexy or whatever, but it just kind of freaks me out.

I Turned Down The Chance To Give A Footjob. Would You Have Gone For It?

I don't have to try very hard to be open-minded when it comes to sex. Even stuff that isn't up my alley, I accept as a mere difference of opinion and sexual desires. While there are things I will say no to, there are things that I've yet to try, am suspicious about but give it a whirl anyway. You can never truly know for sure how you feel about something until you've actually tried it out. I also like to be pushed to the brink of something that makes me uncomfortable; not scared, but almost awkward. There's something tantalizing about it, and the inability to see what the next second or minute will offer is exciting. But despite this enjoyment for the unknown and something new, a footjob is something I just can't get behind for some reason.I have been asked by two different men in my life for me to give them a footjob. In case you're new to this word, it's a handjob with your feet and seems to be something that men with foot fetishes crave. The last thing most men I know want is anyone's feet on their cock, but these two particular fellas requested it.The first time I was asked was several years ago -- it was actually the same person who kept trying to lick my armpit. Since I wouldn't hand over my armpit to his tongue, I figured I'd try this whole footjob thing because it seemed so absurd, we could laugh about it. However, as I learned, people with foot fetishes do not laugh at such things because it's really fucking sexual for them. As I watched him pour the lube on his dick in preparation for what I agreed to do, I burst into laughter as he leaned toward me to direct his manly bit between my feet. I couldn't help thinking how I must have appeared rather monkey-like with my feet turned inward like that and I wondered if this could be the first step in being able to do other things with my feet like write a poem or cook a proper dinner. I couldn't do it.It was just a couple weeks ago when I was asked yet again for a footjob by the Tattoo Guy. I stared blankly at him without saying a word. My mind immediately went back to how I envisioned myself years before as I was laying on that fella's bed just picturing myself as a monkey who was about to feed herself a banana with her feet. Again, I just couldn't it. It's too entertaining for me, that I would feel bad laughing at something that my partner thought was really sexy. It would be a bit like mocking, which I wouldn't be doing, but I think that's still how it may have come out.But now I'm wondering that maybe it was wrong of me not to do it. Maybe I should have tried it for the sake of experience or at least a good story. I usually do most things for the sake of story, so I'm not sure why I passed up that opportunity. Maybe it was because I was in need of a pedicure.

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Fast-forward a year. My high school boyfriend and I broke up after his departure to college, and my friends and I were asked to junior prom by the boys in the grade below us. At this point, I had thoughtfully considered my mother and Oprah's concerns, and decide to just skip the oral sex.The dance had ceased and the after-party had commenced. Before I knew it, Ryan* and I were in someone's brother's bed. I knew Ryan in the same way I know a lot of people in my hometown -- our brothers grew up playing on the same sports team, and at some point in time we began to acknowledge our friendship, or at least acquaintanceship. Well, this night we got to know each other much better.Having only ever slept with one other person, I was surprised by how agilely he navigated my body. He molded me into position after position with the ease of a porn star. Earlier that night, his fancily gelled hair and awkwardly large tux subconsciously told me he meant business, but I couldn't help but be surprised and impressed with his bedroom cool.Immediately after, as he hovered above me in push-up position, he reached toward his hipbone and feigned retrieval of something from his pocket. Granted, he was naked -- there was no pocket. He proceeded to pull an imaginary card from his "pocket" and handed it to me."What is this?" I asked."My V-card. It's all yours."Blindsided again. Should have just stuck with a BJ. In hindsight, I realize how out of touch I was with my body and sexuality in high school. To be honest, I often still feel mystified by the incredible variance in sexual comfort levels, and often struggle to define my own comfort threshold. I have friends who have slept with triple the amount of people I have and other friends who are still virgins. For some reason the common denominator is that we're all constantly quantifying our sexual experiences.I myself have what I can only describe as a number fixation. Every so often I catch myself treating my sex life like a diet, and half-jokingly declaring, "I'm watching my numbers." I'm also slightly notorious for demanding to know any new partner's number well before the conversation is anywhere near appropriate.Although difficult to completely define, I believe the pressure I feel to keep my number low is a product of both internal and external factors. I will never claim to be immune to the virgin-whore dichotomy so often projected onto women. Somewhere along the way, media, cultural tradition, family and religious standards have told me I am worth less as a woman if I am "damaged goods." I'm reluctant to admit acquiescence to negative misogynistic constructs, but I think it's important to acknowledge the effect they've had on my self-evaluation.However, I'll hand it to you, Mom. Sex is intimacy. Time spent having sex with a person belongs to only you two. Never are you more vulnerable than those moments in the bedroom. In my opinion, it's important to acknowledge that sex is complicated and personal. Reflection on your own definition of sexuality is time well spent. Ignore Oprah, carry the V-card in your wallet with pride and own your number -- be it zero, one or 100.

�So, tell me what you know about oral sex�

In 2006, Oprah Winfrey sent suburban mothers across the nation into frenzy with her expos on the oral sex epidemic unique to America\'s youth. Oprah -- in her infinite wisdom and grace -- broached the subject with a dramatic and weighted, \"Parents, brace yourself.\" I never saw the full episode, but can only assume Oprah proceeded to depict a scene in which sixteen-year-old girls, such as myself at the time, were gobbling penises by the dozen. Within a week of the program, my two best friends and I had all received the \"you-aren\'t-doing-this-are-you?\" confrontation from our respective mothers.I now realize conversations of this nature must have been as uncomfortable for my poor mother as they were for me. The moments before beginning this sort of conversation must be like standing at a precipice, filled with dread and butterflies. Finally, she would garner enough courage and dive right into the topic with what came off as little tact or consideration.\"So, tell me what you know about oral sex.\" What? Shit. Where is this coming from? Blindsided! What is the right answer? Should I come clean? Shit. Shit.\"Well, I don\'t know. What do you mean? I know what it is. It sounds gross to me,\" I shot back both indignantly and cautiously.At this point in time, I had been with the same boyfriend for three years. Yeah, we had been engaging in oral sex.This wasn\'t our first time around the block with the \"birds and the bees\" talk. My mom had played this card before, and conditions were always the same: Coerce me into running errands with her, wait until the car is moving and doors are locked and casually bring up the least casual discourse a mother and a teenager can engage in. Every time I was overcome with nausea and carefully assessed my options -- open the car door and throw myself into oncoming traffic, and/or simply break into a fit of guilty tears. I have to admit, it\'s a brilliant tactic -- the in-car sex talk.\"Well, do you have any friends who do that sort of thing?\" she pressed.\"I mean, I\'ve heard of people doing it. I don\'t know anyone really well, though. Mostly the more loose girls. None of my friends.\"Using terms she\'s comfortable with was a strategy I had developed over the years. \"Loose\" to describe \"slutty,\" \"rubbers\" to describe \"condoms,\" \"intimacy\" to describe \"boning.\" It was important to make her feel comfortable and convinced so the conversation would end as quickly and painlessly as possible.\"Good, because I\'ve heard that ki.. these days are shockingly nonchalant about oral sex. You know, that\'s something extremely intimate -- like post-marriage. I mean, my generation really never even considered that as something to do except with someone you\'re extremely comfortable with, like your husband.\"Oh, Jesus-fucking-Christ. She\'s talking about Dad.

CUSTOM PUA OPENERS: HOW TO CREATE YOUR OWN OPENER THAT CREATES INSTANT INTRIGUE

Aha... so you want to create your own PUA openers do you?Interesting.Openers are a delicate subject actually, especially in the PUA community.Some guys think that by having a solid opener it means that she'll be easier to crack as the girl is more open than if it was a terrible opener, based on the sub-communicative first impression.Other guys think that openers are bullshit and it doesn't matter what you say (these guys are usually more open to being direct).WHAT DO I THINK?Well I think there's a place for both direct and indirect approaching, but no matter how you see it, both are using openers.Now you've probably scoured the forums and even read through some PUA openers here, but none have stood out to you or you don't think they "suit your personality".That's cool, because today I'm going to show you how to create your own custom PUA opener which will catch a girls attention, keep her intrigued and also help to build rapport (attraction).So let's get started...HOW TO CREATE YOUR OWN CUSTOM PUA OPENERSSTEP 1: KNOW YOUR SKILL LEVELWhat's your current skill level with game? Are you starting out... been gaming like a madman for 6 months or are you a pro?Before you can create an opener, you must understand what level you're at. Why? Because if you create an opener that requires a lot of balls to say, then you're not going to convey the right amount of confidence that's needed if you've never approached a girl before.STEP 2: WHAT'S YOUR STYLE?Once you understand your level of game, you now need to determine your style of game. What do I mean by that? Well I mean... are you ballsy with a touch of alpha male? Are you more timid and shy? Your opener should match your style.For example, if you're timid and shy then you'll want to use an indirect situational opener and ask for directions or maybe even ask an opinion structured question.Then again if you're more confident, then a direct statement is the way to go.STEP 3: STATEMENT OR QUESTIONOk so you know your style and skill level, now it's time to structure the opener based on the following questions...Direct or indirect?Statement or question?Where are you? (Mall, gas station, nightclub, bar, park, coffee shop, beach etc)Is she on her own or with friends?If yes, is it a mixed group or all girls?An example:Let's say I'm a programmer who never goes out and has only ever had 1 girlfriend. That would mean I'm shy, timid and not very confident around women. I've also never directly approached a girl before.I'd like to use an indirect approach because of my skill level and I'm going to go for a question, or an observation because it's better suited to my personality and style.On my lunch break I go to a busy coffee shop (almost everyday) and it's always full of cute girls seen as though it's in the centre of town.I spot a girl who is on her own and drinking a latte or something, whilst on her laptop. I'd say something like..."Excuse me, do you know where there's another one of these coffee shops around here, there's no way I'm jumping on that looooong queue..."OR"Hey, what's that ice cream looking thing you're drinking?"OR"Hey, is anyone sitting there? (she says no) Cool, can you do me a favour and hold that spot (put your jacket or bag in the space) while I grab a coffee?" - Then when you sit down, say thank you and open back up.STEP 4: PRACTICE YOUR DELIVERY AND REFINEI suggest you write down around 5 PUA openers to begin with and practice them day in day out for the next 30 days. By practicing the same openers, you'll get REALLY good at them and you'll also naturally refine them so they just roll off the tongue and sound completely natural.

TOP 5 PUA ROUTINES THAT ARE WELL KNOWN TO BUILD INTENSE LEVELS OF RAPPORT WITH WOME3

COMMON QUESTIONS GUYS ASK...Things I get asked often by guys when it comes to PUA routines are:When should I stop using them?I'd say a few months after starting, like I said above... use them as training wheels until you get comfortable talking to women. Canned material is great for a VERY short period of time.Are there any guaranteed routines?Nope. Nothing is guaranteed unless you can control a woman's mind with some Harry Pothead magic.How do I create my own PUA routine?I wouldn't bother, but if you're eager to create your own then you should start with an opener that creates intrigue (makes her WANT to answer you)... move onto conversational topics use attraction spikes (uses DHV's) and work on a good close.So that's it big man... use them, go nuts and refine them until you're game is producing results. Then ditch them! Otherwise you'll get sucked into canned odd ball crazy mofo pickup stuff... which I'm dead against.PREGUNTAS COMUNES CHICOS PIDEN ...Las cosas que me hacen a menudo por los hombres cuando se trata de rutinas PUA son:Cundo debo dejar de usarlos?Yo dira que unos meses despus de comenzar, como he dicho antes ... los utilizan como ruedas de entrenamiento hasta que se sienta cmodo hablando con mujeres. Material enlatado es genial para un perodo muy corto de tiempo.Hay rutinas garantizados?Nope. Nada est garantizado a menos que usted puede controlar la mente de una mujer con un poco de Harry Pothead magia.Cmo puedo crear mi propia rutina PUA?No me molestara, pero si usted est ansioso por crear su cuenta, entonces debera comenzar con un abridor que crea intriga (hace querer contestarle) ... pasar a temas de conversacin utilizar atraccin picos (utiliza DHV de) y trabajar en un buen cierre.As que eso es todo hombre grande ... las utilizan, se vuelven locos y refinarlos hasta que est juego est produciendo resultados. A continuacin, deshacerse de ellos! Si no usted dejarse atrapar por enlatada extraa bola loca mofo cosas camioneta ... que estoy totalmente en contra.

TOP 5 PUA ROUTINES THAT ARE WELL KNOWN TO BUILD INTENSE LEVELS OF RAPPORT WITH WOMEN 2

KEEP IT DOWN ROUTINEThis is a playful approach that requires you to be on top of you game but works when you're in a loud bar or club.Quick how-to:1. Walk over to a group of women and ask them to be quiet (with a straight face).2. Follow up with "Guys come on, you're ruining our night over here with your incredibly loud conversation..."3. Make eye contact with the girl you like and move onto another routine with her or just say "Obviously I'm kidding... blah blah..."For a detailed rundown of the keep it down routine I recommend you read this.THE RING FINGER ROUTINEAnother cold reading technique that is designed to spike intrigue. You also throw in a time constraint which allows you to stay and talk but have her think that you're about to leave.Quick how-to:1. Notice her rings and ask her if she always wears her rings on those fingers (if she isn't wearing any, ask and when she does... what fingers she wears them on).2. Explain the reasoning behind each finger (use this as an excuse to touch her hands). You roll through the meanings... pinky for Ares, index finger for Zeus etc.3. When she asks how you know this stuff you say that your ex-girlfriend was really into mythology.For a detailed rundown of the ring finger routine I recommend you read this.THE CAMERA ROUTINEYou need to be high energy for this one, so make sure you've spoken to a few successful sets beforehand. The idea is to create a playful teasing vibe by taking a group photo of girls and then not showing them what it looked like.Quick how-to:1. Action to a group of girls that you want to take their picture (If you do this right, any girl will pose for a photo).2. Make s face once the photo is taken as if to say... woah that didn't look good. So that the girls want to see it.3. Try and walk away, one of the girls will grab you.For a detailed rundown of the camera routine I recommend you read this.

TOP 5 PUA ROUTINES THAT ARE WELL KNOWN TO BUILD INTENSE LEVELS OF RAPPORT WITH WOMEN

TOP 5 PUA ROUTINES COLLECTIONTHE CUBEThe cube is great for cold reading a girl to build deep levels of rapport and make her think you have an in-depth understanding of her. It's pretty long so will take you a few practice goes before you get really good at it, but once you do... cold reading is one of the best ways to hook a girl.Your tone should be serious and mysterious.Quick how-to:1. Prep the girl by letting her know that you're a very intuitive guy and say that you want to show her something.2. Ask her to imagine a scene with three things... sky, horizon and desert.3. Ask her to imagine a cube... where is it? How big is it? What's the colour? What's it made of? (proceed to asking questions on flowers, horse, ladder, storm etc).4. Give her the results and watch her face drop in amazement.For a detailed rundown of the Cube I recommend you read this.5 LIES GAMEGreat little game for catching her out and teasing her at a bar or club, it will build attraction quickly if done properly. You can also hold a set with this.Quick how-to:1. Ask her if she wants to play a quick game, because she looks like a playful kind of girl. You can place a drink bet or you can just use it as a playful approach.2. Explain the question game to her (the aim is to lie as long as you can).3. Proceed with asking her 5 questions... (What colour is my shirt, how old are you, what's the name of this bar... etc).4. Catch her out... boom attraction built!For a detailed rundown of the 5 lies game I recommend you read this.

TOP 5 PUA ROUTINES THAT ARE WELL KNOWN TO BUILD INTENSE LEVELS OF RAPPORT WITH WOMEN

Ahhh good old PUA routines.I remember the days when I used to use PUA routine stacks on every single girl I met... and sometimes they worked for me, but a lot of the times they didn't.This is why I moved onto more natural game, stealth attraction techniques and learning how women tick.However, even though I don't use routines or canned stuff anymore, I still think they're a good tool for any aspiring pickup artist to use in their first few months of learning game.Think of them as your training wheels for building comfort around women and feeling confident in yourself to the point where you can transition away from canned material to a more fluid and natural style.Ok so enough with the waffle... let's get onto what I consider to be the top 5 PUA routines...Buenas rutinas PUA viejos Ahhh.Recuerdo los das en que yo sola utilizar pilas de rutina PUA de todas las chicas que conoc ... y, a veces trabajaba para m, pero muchas de las veces que no lo hicieron.Por eso me mud a juego ms natural, tcnicas de atraccin de sigilo y aprender cmo las mujeres motiva.Sin embargo, a pesar de que yo no uso las rutinas o cosas enlatadas ms, sigo pensando que son una buena herramienta para cualquier artista del ligue que aspiran a utilizar en sus primeros meses de juego de aprendizaje.Piense en ellos como sus ruedas de entrenamiento para la construccin de la comodidad con las mujeres y con mucha confianza en ti mismo hasta el punto en el que puede pasar lejos de material enlatado a un estilo ms fluido y natural.Ok por lo que basta con la galleta ... vayamos a lo que yo considero que son los 5 mejores rutinas PUA ...